Best starting resources

If you are new, start with the Save My Marriage Course, a 12 module program designed for the one spouse wanting to save their marriage after a crisis. 

This is a great place to start in your journey to save your marriage. 

Like we say, “If anything works, this will.” That’s not just our opinion. It’s worked in the lives of thousands. We cannot guarantee you that if you enroll in this course that it will definitely lead to the reconciliation of your marriage. Only frauds and charlatans make those kinds of false promises. We won’t lie to you. But we can promise you that if you enroll and work through the materials, you can become the best you that you’ve ever been when it comes to relationships.

Next, SMART Contact Toolkit - this will help you to learn to stop pushing your spouse away from you. 

After that the Art of Attraction toolkit will help you learn how to start the process of pulling your spouse back to you. 

It's not enough just to listen to the course, but really take time to reflect on how you can implement these changes in your life.

Stories of reconciliation

Read some of our Reconciliation Stories as inspiration for your journey. These are from people who started off like you, feeling hopeless about their marriage. They've used the principals we teach and turned their situation around, we hope you feel more hopeful for your situation after reading them.

Toolkits for going further

After you've gone through SMART Contact and Art of Attraction, try the below toolkits.

• Why Does My Spouse Hate Me?
• The Boundaries Toolkit
• My Spouse Had An Affair - Recovery Toolkit
• I Had An Affair - Recovery Toolkit
• Your Best Self Course

Where to go for additional help

If you have questions or comments about your specific situation you have a few options: 

1. Post in our community forum - our amazing community of members are there to support. We have community admin that will reply to as many as they can. You can find them by typing @marriagehelper and seeing the list that comes up. 

2. Join a support call - with three live sessions happening each week, there hopefully is a time and date that works for you. In the session a Marriage Helper certified coach will be on hand to answer your question. The coach will work through the questions on first written first read basis, so a good tip is to get there early and have your question written out. Try and keep them brief so it is easier for the coach to read live. 

3. Book discounted 1:1 personalized coaching - as a member you get exclusive access our 50 minute coaching sessions at a discount of $69 off full price. You can sign up here.

Abbreviation glossary

LO: Limerent Object

AP: Affair Partner

W/H: wife/husband

SMM: Save My Marriage

MH: Marriage Helper

OW/OM: Other Woman/Other Man

WS: Workshop or Wayward Spouse

SIL/BIL/MIL/FIL: sister/brother/mother/father in law

PIES: Physical Intellectual Emotional Spiritual

SA/PA: sex/porn addiction/physical affair

EA: extramarital affair/emotional affair

SC: Smart Contact

NC: No Contact

DDay: Discovery Day

D: Divorce

D2: Daughter aged 2 ( you can change the number obvious)

S2: Son aged 2 ( you can change the number obvious)

CPI: Creating Positive Interactions

TLDR: Too Long, Don’t/Didn’t Read

STOP: Safeguards That Offer Protection (aka boundary)

CORE: Continuing Our Relationship Essentials (aka criteria)

SS: Standing Spouse