Account Setup and Login

For Best Experience

We recommend using a web-based browser like Chrome for the best experience. Video playback, community chat, webinar signups, and general site navigation will benefit from a larger screen. 

But if you wish, we do have a robust mobile app! It is completely free and will give you access to all the same content as a web browser. 

Your First Week

Step 1 - Schedule Your Homework Time

Plan for about 2 hours each week to dedicate to the lessons and exercises. Remember, as we get further into the program, the amount of weekly exercises will go up!! Be sure that you have time to put in the work!

Also, keep in mind that you will get three additional toolkits over the next 12 weeks, all with their own lessons and homework. Be intentional about carving out the time! 

Step 2 - Get A Journal

Get a notebook to record your "ah-ha" moments as you go through the lessons. If you are comfortable, share these with us in the community chat or email them to [email protected] – we love celebrating your progress and understanding what resonates most! When something "clicks" for you, write it down. For example, if you realize you've been pleading or begging (a "PUSH"), note that down.

Step 3 - Find your Weekly Support Call

Support Calls are interactive meetings where you can ask questions about the course material. They are all hosted by a Marriage Helper Certified Coach. There are multiple times offered each week, so find a time that works best for you. 

Each Support Call is part of a "Cohort," which is just a fancy way of saying "everyone from this group is at the same point in the course." Each month, one of the Cohorts will start over at lesson 1, while the other cohorts are on lesson 5 and 9. It's best to pick a cohort that is starting at the beginning and stick with them all 12 weeks. You can find meeting times here.

By the way, you are welcome to attend any call at any time, and as many times as you want! You and go though the course as many times as you want. For as long as you are a member, you can always come to the Support Calls. 

Need more help?

Navigating the Toolkit Library

Accessing the Course and Toolkit Videos:

• Once logged in, click the Courses and Toolkits button.
• You'll find The Save My Marriage Starter Course unlocked. More toolkits will unlock later. They will automatically be available in the library.
• Inside the Starter Course, the videos are organized under 5 headings: Tutorials, Understanding Marriage, Making Things Better, Dealing with Stubborn Problems, and Recordings (for past Cohort Support Calls, usually uploaded within 24 hours).
• The lessons are listed in the recommended viewing order. We suggest watching one lesson per week to fully absorb the information and complete the exercises.

How to Use the Community

Explore the Community:

• Click the Online Community button after logging in.
• Feed: A stream of all posts from different chat circles.
• Challenges: Short, daily videos to help you enhance your PIES (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual) – you'll learn more about PIES in the Starter Course.
• Meetups: Your go-to for upcoming Support Calls and Webinars (times will be displayed in your local time zone).
• Leaderboard: A fun way to see how your points compare with other members.
• 1:1 Coaching: A quick link to book a session with a coach.
• Resources: An archive of past live webinars.

Engage with the Community:

• Announcements: Important updates from admins and moderators.
• Q&A / Chat: Ask general questions about the training or your marriage. Tag @MH Peer for assistance from qualified Peer Mentors (expect a response within 24 hours, typically less than 12). When asking questions, be clear and concise with supporting details.
• Wins: Celebrate your progress, no matter how small!

How to Book Coaching

Exploring Coaching Options:

• Click the Workshops and Coaching button after logging in.
• Meet the Coaching Team: Find bios and information about our coaches.
• One on One Sessions and Group Coaching:
  • 1:1 Coaching: Personalized sessions for individuals or couples (50 minutes, $135). Book 5-10 days in advance.
  • Group Coaching: Smaller groups (max 4 clients) meeting regularly. Book less than 3 days in advance. The topics are driven by the questions of the group.

All About Live Shows

Attending Live Events

• After logging in click the Online Community button. On the left side navigation bar, find Meetups. 
• Click the live event you wish to attend. You will see the schedule in your own local time. 
• Click the Zoom link to register. You can use a fake name in Zoom, if you wish. But, we do need your real email to send you the join link. 

Live Show Archive

• After logging in click Resource Library. 
• You will find all past shows listed in the left hand navigation menu. Click a heading to expand that section.
• Look for Member Training webinars, Meet a Member interviews, Reconciliation Stories, Coach Conversations, and Let's Ask Dr Joe shows. 
• There is also a great deal of content that doesn't fit anywhere else, such as frequently asked questions.